Unbelievable...Yet NOT...

I have a LOT to say right now (yea, someone did say I was long-winded, lol), but I am going to start off with this.  I will not be signifying in this post.  If the person who brought about this particular post is reading (which she probably is) she knows who she is and I just think it would be egregious and self serving to mention her name or status.  Everything said here she is more than well aware of......now, with that out of the way:

I can't believe and then I CAN believe how much nerve some people have when they feel that they hold some sort of RIGHT in your life.  Just because I'm your mother doesn't give me the right to smash your car through a wall.  Just because I'm your wife doesn't give me the right to spit in your face.  You know, things like that.  Yet people who hold titles so much further down on the totem pole of my life feel that they can "address" what I do or what I say.
First off, I'm a FIRM believer in  "Take care of your own house, before you bring a broom and dust pan to mine."  Another George Hall gem :).....It's really amazing to me how many little things I've heard him say are coming back to me and in such relevant ways.  But, I'm not going to tell you how to perform brain surgery when I'm not the one with the medical degree.  I'm not going to tell you how to handle your kids because mine are not perfect.  I'm not going to tell you how to conduct your marriage, because again no perfection here and lastly, I WON'T TELL YOU HOW TO LIVE YOUR LIFE when I'm struggling through mine.  I find it unbelievable, yet NOT unbelievable that someone who is not on my level and really know less than anything about me would try to tell me how to be.  When I look at this same person and wonder what they are on....
I find it unbelievable, yet NOT unbelievable that someone would not take into consideration a loss when they've had a similar loss and use the most INOPPORTUNE of times to bring drama.....
I find it unbelievable, yet NOT unbelievable that someone who knows any one thing about me and my personality would think I'm going to simply "let" someone ream me.....Not even on a bad day am I to be messed with. (If you need to ask, you never knew. lol)
I find it unbelievable, yet NOT unbelievable that someone would think their opinions about my life would actually hold enough weight for me to change my behavior or the way I handle MY business.
I find it unbelievable, yet NOT unbelievable that someone would put themselves in the middle of that said business and think that would go unchallenged.......
I find it unbelievable, yet NOT unbelievable that I thought this person was more mature than that.  Oh well, c'est la vie....

I thank and appreciate all who will read and would also like to wish you a Merry Christmas.  Peace.